Life is Short; Learn to Live

A quote by Ralph W. Emerson (Source: Our Mindful Life)

In a world filled with hustle and bustle, it’s easy to get caught up in the chaos and lose sight of what truly matters, leading to self-doubt, feelings of unworthiness, and anxiety. We’re all familiar with the phrase ‘Que Sera Sera’, which means what will happen will happen. No matter how anxious we are about the future, we can’t predict it. So, don’t be worried; if it’s meant to be, it will be. The main thing isn’t to worry too much about the future; it’s about managing what you can control.

The weight of self-doubt (Source: Choicism)

Often, we find ourselves plagued with questions like, “What if I don’t succeed? What if they don’t like me? Does my outfit look weird today? Why are they looking at me?” Too much lack of self-confidence can impede our personal growth when we contemplate these questions deeply, especially when we compare ourselves to friends who appear more successful. In reality, if we delve deeper, we realize that our lack of progress stems not from a lack of effort but from our own lack of self-belief. So, let’s not allow overthinking to consume us; instead, let’s embrace life to the fullest. Living life to the fullest doesn’t always mean seeking grand adventures or adrenaline-pumping experiences; sometimes, it involves finding joy and meaning in everyday moments, like appreciating every little thing we’ve done, the laughter of a loved one, the warmth of a comfortable hug, or the beauty of sunsets painting the sky in golden and pink shades. Abundance surrounds us, saturating every facet of existence, eagerly awaiting our acknowledgment as we revel in the multitude of simple joys that infuse life with significance. We simply need to cultivate gratitude for the wealth of experiences we’ve accumulated.

There’s a saying: “Yesterday is history; tomorrow is a mystery; but today is a gift; that is why it is called the present.” So, let’s start living our lives fully because they’re short: raise your hand in class even if you’re unsure of the answer; if someone hurts you, turn your back on them and ignore them; if you’re sad, go eat ice cream, even though it’s before dinner. Life is tough, but at least we can afford the food we want now. Imagine being sad and unable to even buy ice cream for yourself. So, let’s not be too hard on ourselves. If you feel that everyone in the world opposes you, remember that you still have yourself, which is the most important thing. 

Therefore, let’s not worry about tomorrow because it has its own difficulties. One day’s trouble is enough for one day. Every day waits like a blank canvas, ready for us to paint it with the vibrant colors of our dreams and aspirations. Let’s make the most of the time we have, embracing each moment with open arms and open hearts. Whether it’s finding joy in the little things, facing challenges with courage and resilience, or forging deep connections with those around us, let’s learn to truly live in every sense of the word. It’s everyone’s first time being alive, too. So let’s not worry about the future; let’s learn to live now. Don’t just exist; live.

Mehamat Yusuf Tuahta Sembiring Meliala