{"id":7881,"date":"2026-09-10T10:12:15","date_gmt":"2026-09-10T03:12:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/?p=7881"},"modified":"2026-09-10T10:12:15","modified_gmt":"2026-09-10T03:12:15","slug":"the-art-of-romanticizing-your-own-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/2026\/09\/10\/the-art-of-romanticizing-your-own-life\/","title":{"rendered":"The Art of Romanticizing Your Own Life"},"content":{"rendered":"

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My friend Lilith was once in a love bubble, the kind where you start to lose a little more of yourself each day. She fought for it anyway, even as some quiet part of her already knew how it would end. Not if. When.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

She was terrified of a life without him. No one to rant to at 1 a.m., no one to say <\/span>let’s go <\/span><\/i>on a whim, no one to chase yummy little spots across town like they were sacred ground. And then, quietly, it was over. A few days passed, and strangely enough, it didn’t wreck her. Some loneliness lingers still, but mostly, she’s okay. Genuinely, all she wants now is to be happy and to stop waiting on uncertainty.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Here’s the truth: you cannot bleed yourself dry searching for pieces of yourself in someone else’s. You are enough on your own, and you certainly don’t need someone else to feel complete. Your love comes first.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fall in love with your own life.<\/strong> <\/span>Not the one you were told to want, not the one you think will finally make someone proud, not the one you daydream about while scrolling someone else’s highlight reel. The one in front of you\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Most people stay miserable because they can\u2019t accept that their current life feels too ordinary. As if joy only counts when it’s loud and dramatic. But why can\u2019t we fall in love with the ordinary?<\/strong> The morning run and horrendously delicious matcha that starts the day. The spontaneous midnight binge-watch marathon with family. The friends who send you TikTok videos just to keep the streak alive.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fall in love with your mistakes and scars. With the version of you that kept crawling when it would’ve been easier to give up. Romanticize your life and rage against the idea that your life only counts when it looks like someone else’s.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lilith thought the love bubble bursting would leave her empty. Instead, she felt lighter. Somewhere in what ended, she found her way back to herself and remembered a quote from <\/span>Dead Poets Society<\/span><\/i>: <\/span>Carpe diem<\/span><\/i>, meaning seize the day. Not because every day is extraordinary, but because none come twice. And the ordinary ones, lived fully, are the ones that add up to a life worth falling in love with.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Hasif. (2025, September 15). <\/span>Fall in love with your own life<\/span><\/i>. Substack. <\/span>https:\/\/hasifff.substack.com\/p\/fall-in-love-with-your-own-life<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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