    {"id":5152,"date":"2022-11-15T08:46:55","date_gmt":"2022-11-15T01:46:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/?p=5152"},"modified":"2022-11-15T08:46:55","modified_gmt":"2022-11-15T01:46:55","slug":"say-no-in-conversation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/2022\/11\/15\/say-no-in-conversation\/","title":{"rendered":"SAY NO IN CONVERSATION"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center\"><b>Say No in Conversation<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When someone offers something like a date, wedding invitation, birthday party, some food or drinks, and others, there is a possibility we would refuse the offer because of our own reason, and sometimes we feel bad saying the word \u201cNo\u201d to them. In conversation, we usually say, \u201cNo, I\u2019m sorry\u201d, \u201cNo, thank you\u201d, and \u201cI can\u2019t go\u201d. These are common phrases.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">There are more phrases in English you could use to be more polite when refusing an offer:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.38.39.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5153\" src=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.38.39.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1204\" height=\"552\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>It\u2019s very kind of you, but\u2026<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That person is kind to offer you something, but you have issues or something that could hinder you from accepting the offer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Example:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">It\u2019s very kind of you, but I have to pick up my son at 03:00 PM.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.38.48.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5154\" src=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.38.48.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1202\" height=\"512\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>I really appreciate your offer, but unfortunately\u2026 or It\u2019s a great offer, but \u2026<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">It means you are thankful for the offer but can\u2019t accept it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Example:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">I really appreciate your offer, but unfortunately, I have something to do on Thursday.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">It\u2019s a great offer, but I have plans on Monday and probably can\u2019t make it there.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.38.58.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5155\" src=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.38.58.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1202\" height=\"596\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>It is very tempting, but\u2026<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Tempting means making people want to have it. So in this phrase, it could mean that you could make it or you would consider it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Example:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Jane<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: Do you want to go to our party tomorrow? It will be amazing!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Josh<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: Wow, it is very tempting\u2026 but I have plenty of work to do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If Josh really wants to go to the party, he could say: \u201cWow, it is very tempting! Maybe if I finished this work tonight, I can go with you.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.39.07.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5156\" src=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.39.07.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1202\" height=\"622\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><b>I\u2019m going to pass or I think I\u2019m going to pass on it if you don\u2019t mind.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Pass means to skip something. It\u2019s quite informal, but you have to focus on the intonation when you say it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Example:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Josh<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: Could you go with me to Walmart? I am going to buy some snacks and drinks.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Jane<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: I\u2019m going to pass if you don\u2019t mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Josh<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: Okay, I will get you a coffee. See you!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.39.14.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5157\" src=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.39.14.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1202\" height=\"616\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>I\u2019m sorry. I don\u2019t think I can make it.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This means you feel sorry for refusing the offer; these phrases could be helpful if you don\u2019t want to explain the reason (depending on the context).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Example:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Sarah<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: Josh, could you come to the office this weekend?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Josh<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: I&#8217;m so sorry, Sarah. I don\u2019t think I can make it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Sarah<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: It\u2019s okay.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.39.23.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5158\" src=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.39.23.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1202\" height=\"634\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>I&#8217;m honored, but\u2026 or Thank you so much for thinking of me, but\u2026<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">These phrases show that you are pleased about the offer, but sadly, you have to refuse it. This will make the person that offered you feel respected.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ms Lee<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: Could you go to the office\u2019s dinner with Maria at 09:00 PM? There will be many investors.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Jane<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: Thank you so much for thinking of me, but I can&#8217;t make it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ms Lee<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: Is that okay if I want to know why?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Jane<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">: Umm\u2026 I promised to spend time with my son tonight, and I can\u2019t break it again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Depending on the context, there is a possibility you would say why you could not accept the offer if the person is asking you to explain. However, some people will probably know that you don\u2019t want to talk about it if you are not explaining the reason.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If you are not sure whether you can accept the offer or not and want them to wait for the answer, you could say:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.39.31.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5159\" src=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.39.31.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1202\" height=\"604\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>To take a rain check on something.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This phrase is used to tell someone that you cannot accept an invitation now but would like to do so later, or to ask someone to give you time to think about it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.39.40.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5160\" src=\"http:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/24\/2022\/11\/Screen-Shot-2022-11-15-at-10.39.40.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1202\" height=\"590\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Let me sleep on this.\u00a0<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cSleep on\u201d here means that you want to save the offer, and later you will answer about it. This is helpful when you need more time to think about it or deliberate about the offer so we can give the best decision that has been examined and reduce the problems that arise from the decisions made.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When refusing an offer, it doesn\u2019t mean that you are rude because behind that, there must be a reason that makes us unable to accept the offer, or we just don\u2019t want to do it. It is our right to determine which one we want to do without any sense of compulsion. These phrases above would help you to refuse someone\u2019s offer with respect and don\u2019t make you sound impolite, particularly with your colleagues, elders, parents, and friends.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">References:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/english-at-home.com\/refuse-an-offer\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">https:\/\/english-at-home.com\/refuse-an-offer\/<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.indiatoday.in\/education-today\/grammar-vocabulary\/story\/10-ways-to-politely-say-no-1505465-2019-04-19\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">https:\/\/www.indiatoday.in\/education-today\/grammar-vocabulary\/story\/10-ways-to-politely-say-no-1505465-2019-04-19<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/dictionary\/english\/raincheck\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/dictionary\/english\/raincheck<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Say No in Conversation When someone offers something like a date, wedding invitation, birthday party, some food or drinks, and others, there is a possibility we would refuse the offer because of our own reason, and sometimes we feel bad saying the word \u201cNo\u201d to them. In conversation, we usually say, \u201cNo, I\u2019m sorry\u201d, \u201cNo, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":5161,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5152","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-articles"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5152","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5152"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5152\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5162,"href":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5152\/revisions\/5162"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5161"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5152"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5152"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/student-activity.binus.ac.id\/bnec\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5152"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}